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Success: What Does That Word Mean to YOU?

Success: what does that word mean to you?

The more "luxuries" you want, the more you become a slave to maintaining them.

Webster’s New Collegiate Dictionary sub-defines success as “the attainment of wealth, favor or eminence”.

The problem with the word success is that sadly, most of us think that wealth – in the monetary sense – actually is a mandatory component of success, but nothing could be further from the truth. The Belair mansion, the swimming pool, supermodel wife, Porsche… they are all material liabilities.  That’s right, LIABILITIES.  They are the master and you are the slave. 

the media makes decisions for you. Logic of needs, or slave to material liabilities

Edward Bernays (1891-1995.) This man essentially figured out how to make YOU buy things you don't need.

As you unconsciously let the media make your moral AND material decisions for you, you are misled by your subconscious desires instead of following the logic of your needs (thanks to Edward Bernays, known as the ‘father’ of modern day public relations; he was Sigmund Freud’s nephew). We are victims of consumer dysfunction and irrational thinking that is shoved down our throats.  Well, you could argue that we all need a house, a car and possibly a wife, so what’s wrong with having the DELUXE version of these things? That should be considered a LUXURY…not a liability!

Webster’s quotes the word luxury as “Excess. Something added to pleasure or comfort but not absolutely necessary”.  So what IS necessary?  It’s not hard to figure out as long as you are HONEST with yourself.  Why burdened your life with liabilities you can’t afford, have to maintain and will constantly seek more of?  And you WILL seek more.  You HAVE to keep up with the Kardashians…  Society demands it.  You are judged by how many toys you have.  But don’t you eventually outgrow toys? But, because you let your WANTS be placed above your NEEDS…well, you become a slave to living a life of self-created demands that you will never satisfy.

wealth has nothing to do with success

He had more than enough: MC Hammer's record sales exploded, he spent 30 million dollars to live "lavish", sales dropped, he couldn't pay his bills and he filed for bankruptcy OWING 13 million.

ANYTHING above your means can be your liability. Let’s substitute the word success with fulfillment, which infers a sense of peace and happiness.  Happiness, isn’t that our underlying quest in life?  Even Sammy Satan, the Death Metal bassist who lives next door wants to be happy. When it makes us feel good to hold the door open for an older person or help a child, why don’t we do more of it?  Many of us may never have even tried it.  Give to others and you’ll get back not only what you need but much more than any amount of money could ever buy.  It’s free and it multiplies. Stop being resentful of what you don’t have; of what you think life owes you. Success is how you look at life, NOT how someone else sees it FOR you. Now go do something for someone else…something…ANYTHING! You’ll experience what everyone else is missing…to GET you must GIVE!

Footnote: I would NEVER want the liability of a Porsche. I drive, by choice, a ’94 Plymouth Voyager: it has 4 tires, a steering wheel, and a good inspection sticker. It gets me from point ‘A’ to point ‘B’, I own it, I’m not a slave to making payments. It’s OK if it’s gets a dent here or there or I spill some coffee inside…who cares? I’ll bet the Porsche owner would. He may have a lot of money but he’s a slave to A CAR!

Smiley emoticons!

THERE IS AT LEAST ONE MUSICIAN IN OVER 55% OF U.S. HOUSEHOLDS.

“Artists and writers experience two to three times the rate of psychosis, suicide attempts, mood disorders, and substance abuse than do comparably successful people in business, science, and public life.”

Study by Dr. Arnold M. Ludwig, a psychiatrist at the University of Kentucky Medical

THERE IS A SOLUTION.

Please help make it happen.

PROBLEMS CAN’T BE SOLVED WHEN YOU DON’T UNDERSTAND THE PROBLEM.


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  1. Ask me what is success! Success is when your NO means NO and your YES means YES? Xzibit. — Get Fucked Up With Me

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